Thanks to the popularity of the Fifty Shades series, more and more people are opening up their minds to the idea of domination. The idea of having another person take control of them, of punishing them for things they have done, is a turn on to some. Others aren’t so sure, as they don’t want to have pain inflicted upon them.
Knowledge is a powerful tool, right? Well, I don’t think it’s always powerful, but I believe it can be useful if you’re in a hot session with a mistress. Just like every media franchise that has its own Wikipedia page, BDSM has its own glossary that doms and subs look back on whenever they need to be reminded what a certain word means.
Guys and girls, it is a fact that porn isn’t the most realistic of things to watch on your laptop…well…neither is a science fiction movie. There are certain positions that a pornstar would have been trained to do to avoid any kind of physical injury; you can’t exactly do a standing-up 69 position without training your back, can you?
When you think of the things that you need to do during sex, being polite tends not to really appear on the list. Yes, you should always be polite, but thinking of the sex etiquette you need to follow doesn’t really take precedent with many of us. In fact, most of us wouldn’t even think that there is a sex etiquette to follow!
The world of domination is not as simple as you might think it is. Contrary to popular belief, it isn’t all whips, chains, and contracts. The simple fact is that domination is about taking control in some way, and that might be through making someone your slave, beating them into submission, or some other fun activity you haven’t actually thought about yet. While a lot of domination takes place face to face, the rise in technology and the ability to access the internet anywhere means that doms have started taking their skills online and using them there.
We all have those naughty thoughts about the kind of kinky things that we want to try out in bed, but trying to figure out which fantasy is the one that we should try can be difficult. It can be made even more challenging to figure out what kind of thing your partner might like in the bedroom, as it is always so much more fun to share a fuck fantasy with someone who wants to try it out just as much as you do.
I have to be honest with you gentlemen, I love a little bit of pain during sex. I love getting spanked, I love role-playing, I love being tied up, and I love giving control to a dominant partner who toys with my body and explores the different ways to make me cum. As you can see, I enjoy being quite submissive. Some people may read this and think that it’s a little extreme, but others may see it as a mild form of BDSM.
As much as we might hate the series, the Fifty Shades books and films have well and truly brought BDSM into the spotlight. While bored housewives around the world are thrilled to be reading about Christian Grey’s antics in the red room with Anastasia, the rest of us are horrified at the things we see described on the pages, and we can’t wait to put them down.
Ask anyone how they feel about the ‘Fifty Shades’ series and you will be hit with a strong opinion. People either love it and think it is some of the best erotica they have ever read or they hate it and believe that it is nothing short of abusive and disgusting to read.