So, you\u2019ve heard about the world of female domination and you want to become a mistress\u2019 little pig? That\u2019s great news; I\u2019m sure that a feisty dominatrix would be more than happy to use you as her puny bitch. <\/p>\n
However, some men have common misconceptions about what dominatrixes are and what kind of services a domme would provide. In addition, some of them get confused when a mistress gives them a set of strict rules to follow…Therefore, you should keep reading this article and jot down some mental notes, so you wouldn\u2019t act like an idiot when you walk into a domme’s dark, leathery dungeon.<\/p>\n
In order to make you trust them, mistresses would have list of services that they\u2019d provide in elaborate detail. Normally, they would show you what their skills are on their websites or on their directory accounts, but they would explain how they’d perform their services in greater detail via email or phone; depending on how you’d contact your chosen domme. This is what a veteran dominatrix would do, because she would know that a brand new slave would feel anxious about her services, if not skeptical.<\/p>\n
Even if a dominatrix has only been in the business for less than a year, she would still feel confident enough to advertise her services. Why? Because every mistress would have had professional training from another mistress that has been in the industry longer than her. A dominatrix would have been taught how to keep her assertion with her slave, how to use BDSM gadgets properly and how to make sure that you\u2019re always safe during a session.<\/strong><\/p>\n You would have heard of a few cases where a submissive has sustained some injury from a domination meeting, like being impaled on a strap-on or being knocked out by his mistress. However, it\u2019s quite rare that situations like those would occur. If they would happen, then that’d mean the mistress didn\u2019t know exactly what she was doing. Then again, if you enter a domme\u2019s dungeon and you don\u2019t feel safe, then you\u2019re better off turning around and heading back home.<\/p>\n A true dominatrix would know every little kink that each of their servants would have. She could have a submissive that’d enjoy getting whipped, but wouldn\u2019t be able to handle getting electrocuted, or a slave that’d prefer to be verbally abused rather than physically humiliated. If a mistress wants her client to meet her again and again, she has to build a connection with him, and that connection is accompanied by trust. <\/p>\n A dominatrix cannot be called a dominatrix if she doesn\u2019t push your mental capacity during an encounter. You wouldn\u2019t hear a mistress asking you if she could electrocute your balls, or demanding you to lick her boots in a soft voice; that would defeat the whole purpose of being dominant! To put it quite bluntly, a mistress wouldn\u2019t ask you to obey her, she would tell you to obey her, maybe even bark at you to kneel before her.<\/p>\n Do not be fooled into thinking that dominatrixes don\u2019t care about your health, safety and well-being. If they didn\u2019t, then they wouldn\u2019t have any clients that’d pay them for their services! A good mistress would always make sure that you’re physically and emotionally safe, which could be a reason why she might ask you about your past experiences in BDSM as well as your limitations. The last thing that a dominatrix would want is to permanently scar you, whether it would be on your body or in your mind.<\/p>\n Many mistresses have the sense that if they are naked in a meeting, then that would strip away their status as a dominatrix. Why do you think men are the only ones that end up naked in a hot encounter? Some of the feisty women would reveal a little bit of skin, but they would never fully show their tits or ass.<\/strong> Something to point out to you, as well, you would never see a dominatrix without her boots on. Never.<\/p>\n If you want a courtesan to give you sex near the end of a session, then a dominatrix would be the last kind of woman you should encounter. Despite what you would have seen from BDSM porn videos, a mistress wouldn\u2019t give you sexual services unless it is included in her list of services that she provides, but that would be very unlikely. If you meet a mistress under the pretense that your cock would receive some \u2018intimate\u2019 attention, then she would brand you as a time-waster, end the meeting immediately, and refuse to arrange another encounter with you.<\/p>\n Dominatrixes would not play with you if you don\u2019t have anything in your stomach for one important reason. Female domination sessions take up a lot of energy out of a submissive, since he would be trying to stay away while he\u2019d be pushed, shoved, slapped, shocked, probed and so on. <\/p>\n If you didn\u2019t eat, or eaten enough prior to the encounter, there is a big chance that you would pass out during the session and would have to be taken to A&E. I\u2019m pretty sure that you wouldn\u2019t want to explain to a doctor how you’ve passed out in a mistress’ dungeon…<\/p>\n It\u2019s unlikely that a mistress would give you a safe word for you to use during an encounter and I\u2019ll tell you why. If a dominatrix provides her slave with a word to say if the session becomes too intense for him to handle, and he\u2019s getting thrown around like the ragdoll which would make him very light-headed, what are the chances of him remembering what that safe word would be?<\/p>\n An experienced slave would provide his mistress with a safe word, so she would know when the submissive would need to take a break. Furthermore, it would be better for the slave to have a safe word that he would definitely remember.<\/p>\n For those who are thinking: \u201cBut Christian made Anastacia use the word \u2018Red\u2019 in Fifty Shades of Grey\u201d Pay no attention to the movie or film whatsoever.<\/p>\n Dommes would use red, yellow and green to see where you are when it comes to your pain threshold<\/strong>. If you\u2019re fine and dandy, you are green. If you need some time to catch your breath, you are yellow. If you feel like your cock is about to fall off, you are red.<\/p>\n Of course, you may find a mistress that has a different set of rules in comparison to the ones that are in this list. You might encounter a domme that would get naked in a hot session, or would give you a safe word of her choice. However, the chances of being with a femdom that would have unique \u2018do’s and don\u2019ts\u2019 are very slight.<\/p>\n It would be worth it for you to save this blog in your favourites tab, otherwise, a dominatrix would not be happy with you.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" So, you\u2019ve heard about the world of female domination and you want to become a mistress\u2019 little pig? That\u2019s great news; I\u2019m sure that a feisty dominatrix would be more than happy to use you as her puny bitch.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":17,"featured_media":2650,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"iawp_total_views":89,"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[564,162,1008,806],"class_list":["post-2649","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-advice","tag-bdsm","tag-bondage","tag-domintarix","tag-kinky"],"yoast_head":"\nThey do try their best to get to know you<\/h2>\n
They do push you<\/h2>\n
But they do know your limits<\/h2>\n
They don\u2019t get naked<\/h2>\n
They don\u2019t provide sex<\/h2>\n
They don\u2019t let you play if you haven\u2019t eaten<\/h2>\n
They don\u2019t give you safe words<\/h2>\n
If they do give you safe words, it would never be \u2018Red\u2019, \u2018Yellow\u2019 or \u2018Green\u2019<\/h2>\n
Know that nearly every dominatrix would have these kinds of rules\u2026<\/h2>\n