{"id":8843,"date":"2019-08-19T13:12:48","date_gmt":"2019-08-19T12:12:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.xescorts.com\/blog\/?p=8843"},"modified":"2019-08-19T13:12:49","modified_gmt":"2019-08-19T12:12:49","slug":"bdsm-submissives-are-not-pussies","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.xescorts.com\/blog\/bdsm-submissives-are-not-pussies\/","title":{"rendered":"BDSM Submissives Are NOT Pussies"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>BDSM: it\u2019s a buzz-phrase we see being thrown around a lot these days. Unfortunately, there are still a lot of misconceptions about it, the biggest one being that all men who are BDSM submissives are also pussies. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<p>It doesn\u2019t take a genius to tell you that being a sub is a lot more nuanced than that, but as many experts will tell you, it\u2019s also a lie. Whether you\u2019re craving to be a sub but are scared of the stigma, or you just aren\u2019t convinced, here\u2019s why.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>An introduction to BDSM<\/strong> <\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>BDSM has existed <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bdsmtalks.com\/the-history-of-bdsm\/\">for as long as people have<\/a>, but it has only recently come into the mainstream. Exploring domination, control, pleasure, and pain, it\u2019s a steamy new world with a delightfully dark centre. Essentially, it\u2019s a very broad fetish. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.xescorts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/bdsm-submissive-in-a-session-with-his-dominatrix.gif\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-8852\" width=\"557\" height=\"313\"\/><figcaption>BDSM submissive in a session with his dominatrix<br>Source: Giphy<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>There are two main parties in BDSM: the dominatrix, and the\nsubmissive. Now, while, having all the power of a dominatrix sounds fun, people\noften find that there is more pleasure to be had as a submissive. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We hear a lot about the pleasure people get from Sadism, but there\u2019s a lot of mystery surrounding the all-important masochism part. From dressing as a maid and cleaning floors, to being whipped senseless and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.xescorts.com\/blog\/cbt-whats-cock-and-ball-torture-really-like\/\">experience CBT by your dominatrix<\/a>, subs can take part in numerous tasks. It doesn\u2019t matter if the pain is emotional or physical, as long as you feel pleasure from it. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.independent.co.uk\/life-style\/love-sex\/common-bdsm-myths-its-not-a-new-fad-its-not-violent-and-not-everyone-who-partakes-is-psychologically-a6702396.html\">Sex is not always involved<\/a>, and it doesn\u2019t play as big a role as most people think. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>The everyday world of a submissive<\/strong>\n<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Submissives exist\nall around the world. They wake up each day, go to work, and have a regular\nroutine like you and me. They have their fetish, just like everyone else, but\nwhen night falls, their sex lives take on a kinky form that turns their normal\nday upside down. And only in the best way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When you are submissive, your role is either limited to steamy sessions, or you live it every day, keeping it under wraps from suspecting partners and friends. With a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.xescorts.com\/blog\/why-its-better-to-see-a-professional-dominatrix\/\">traditional domination relationship, subs enter a contract<\/a>, where they become slaves for their dominatrix, performing all sorts of \u2018degrading\u2019 tasks. In more recent developments, dominatrixes <a href=\"https:\/\/metro.co.uk\/2017\/10\/26\/money-for-nothing-heres-a-guide-to-financial-domination-for-beginners-7021372\/\">like Findoms<\/a> hold power over their subs purely by contacting them over the phone, and claiming their money as punishment if they do something the domme doesn\u2019t like. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.xescorts.com\/escort-search\/index.html?type=female&#038;service=escort&#038;fetish%5B%5D=2772&#038;utm_source=blog&#038;utm_medium=banner&#038;utm_campaign=blog_banners&#038;utm_content=dominatrixes\"><figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"742\" height=\"220\" src=\"https:\/\/www.xescorts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/find-your-dominatrix-on-xescorts.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-8847\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.xescorts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/find-your-dominatrix-on-xescorts.jpg 742w, https:\/\/www.xescorts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/find-your-dominatrix-on-xescorts-300x89.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 742px) 100vw, 742px\" \/><\/figure><\/a>\n\n\n\n<p>If this seems like a lot to take in, that\u2019s because it is. BDSM covers such a broad range of fantasies that most subs take a while to figure out what makes them tick. A lot of the time, this is why they turn to an expert, who will encourage safe words and non-judgemental space, to prevent their sub from being harmed. Unless you <em>want <\/em>to be judged throughout your session. If that\u2019s what you\u2019re into, then that is totally up to you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>The Biggest Misconceptions<\/strong> With BDSM Submissives<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Even in our newly\nliberal society, fetishes are still demonised. While BDSM is widely accepted as\na whole, this is one area of sex where men face discrimination more than women.\nWhether a woman is a dominant partner or a submissive one, there isn\u2019t a whole\nlot of stigma attached. With men, it\u2019s a <em>completely<\/em>\ndifferent story. Guys are looked down on as being pussies, even though nothing\ncould be further from the truth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There are lots of reasons why this stigma exists. Some argue that people aren\u2019t educated enough about this aspect of sex, which leads to confusion. Ultimately, people are always scared of what they don\u2019t understand, even if their reaction causes harm. On the other hand, there are loads of guys who know what it is, but they think that submitting control to a female dominatrix makes them less of a man. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>At the end of the day, it\u2019s a fetish. You might get off on being a submissive\nbehind closed doors, but that doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re a pushover in everyday life.\nIn fact, most male subs actually work in high-powered jobs, but they desire a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/blog\/evolution-the-self\/201206\/dominant-or-submissive-paradox-power-in-sexual-relations\">role\nreversal in BDSM<\/a>. Even if they don\u2019t, giving up control is a form of stress\nrelief, but also allows them to escape the pressures of society. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It is brave to relinquish something so personal. <em>Surely<\/em> that means any sub is actually\nthe opposite of a pussy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Why People Like <\/strong>Being BDSM Submissives<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>We\u2019ve already\ntouched on how being a submissive is a fun way of escaping everyday stresses,\nbut there are a whole host of other reasons why people like doing it. A simple\nbut true fact is that <a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/rajan-dominari\/2017\/12\/this-is-what-it-really-means-to-be-submissive-in-the-bedroom\/\">being\na submissive<\/a> is fun. It introduces you to a world you might have only ever\ndreamed of before, and helps you to embrace your inner kink. And it doesn\u2019t\njust involve bondage and gagging. One session might be wildly tame, while\nanother might be, well, wild. In any case, it\u2019s sure to spice up even the most\nvanilla of sex lives.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.xescorts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/giphy-downsized.gif\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-8853\" width=\"562\" height=\"316\"\/><figcaption>BDSM Submissives trying out bondage gear.<br>Source: Giphy<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Recently, it has become <em>way<\/em> more accessible. Even if your partner at home isn\u2019t into BDSM, you\u2019re guaranteed to find an escort service who can educate you about it. Entering into a contract with a Femdom also doesn\u2019t automatically mean you need to participate in extreme BDSM if you\u2019re not comfortable with it- and people are slowly beginning to realise this. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Not only is it easy to set up a meeting with an escort, but they drop beginners into the role step by step, at a more manageable pace. Weirdly enough, the stigma that still surrounds it can make being a submissive more attractive. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>With it, there\u2019s something dirty, naughty and underhand about it, which some people get turned on just thinking about. If you\u2019re tempted to give up control in your sex life, you can hire escorts from a service provider like XEscorts, who can help you take the plunge. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Trust us, when you\u2019re comfortable with the role and clamouring to get your fix every day, you won\u2019t ever look back. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.xescorts.com\/blog\/erotic-stories\/?utm_source=blog&#038;utm_medium=banner&#038;utm_campaign=blog_banners&#038;utm_content=erotic_stories\"><figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"742\" height=\"220\" src=\"https:\/\/www.xescorts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/read-our-erotic-stories-on-xescorts.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-8848\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.xescorts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/read-our-erotic-stories-on-xescorts.jpg 742w, https:\/\/www.xescorts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/read-our-erotic-stories-on-xescorts-300x89.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 742px) 100vw, 742px\" \/><\/figure>\n<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on the_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>BDSM: it\u2019s a buzz-phrase we see being thrown around a lot these days. 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