The 4 Essential Sex Toys Every Bedroom Needs!
November 28, 2016
Thinking of buying some sex toys? It can be pretty intimidating. There are so many different types of there for you to buy that figuring out the perfect ones to keep at home can be tough. When you are first starting to use them in the bedroom, it is best to stick with the essential sex toys and not go over the top.
There are some essential sex toys that you should have in your bedroom to enjoy your time with your partner. In fact, there are only four that you need to start off your sex toy fun! Take a look at our guide to see what toys you need and how you can use them in the bedroom.
1. Bite the bullet
One of the best toys that you can keep in your night stand is the vibrating bullet. This is a small and discreet toy that you can easily hide… and best of all they are cheap to purchase. There are so many different kinds for you to buy and they will really spice up your sex life.
These small plastic or silicone toys have a powerful vibration. You can use it during foreplay to slowly tease your partner and turn them on, and because it is small enough you can easily hide it from your partner and surprise them with it.
A number of them are also waterproof, which means you can spice up your oral sex quickly. Simply hold it in your cheek while going down on your partner and it will leave them feeling fantastic.
2. Put a ring on it
There are essential sex toys that aren’t there just to make sex feel good for you and your partner. Some can actually help you in the bedroom by making you last a little longer during sex.
If you have trouble with premature ejaculation and staying hard, you will find that a cock ring is a great tool to use. Like bullets, cock rings are discreet and easy to use. All you have to do is slip it around your cock.
It will restrict the blood flow a little, allowing you to stay harder for longer and delay your orgasm. Best of all, you can buy some that also have an additional ring to hold a vibrating bullet. This means that, as you lie back and enjoy sex with a cock ring on, the vibrating bullet can hit your partner’s clit and get her to orgasm.
3. Getting tied down
Not all of the essential sex toys that you need to have in your bedroom are actually sold as sex toys. There are some every day items you will already own that can work really well. If you have a suit tie, then you have a sex toy ready to go.
Ties are excellent in the bedroom, especially if you enjoy getting a little kinky. There are so many uses for them, too! Want to surprise your partner and explore sensory deprivation sex? Use the tie as a blindfold. Because they can’t see they will need to instead focus on every touch, which will make sex more intense.
You can also use the tie to restrict movement for them. Why not tie their hands up and tell them that you want to make them totally yours? If you want to go further, you could even use the tie as a whip to spank them with.
4. Slippery when wet
There are some things that you should always have in the bedroom. Lube is one of them. People often forget that lube can be one of the best sex toys out there, as there are so many uses for it.
Some lubes double up as massage oils. This means that you can rub it into your partner’s skin for a kinky massage before you get on with sex. Others are edible so that you can taste different flavours as you lick your partner all over.
There are also lubes that tingle or warm the body. This can really make sex into something very kinky, but if you are using lubes with sex toys, make sure you use water-based lubes. Oil-based can ruin your sex toys and condoms that you use.
Buying the essential sex toys
These essential sex toys will really help you spice things up in the bedroom, and best of all they don’t cost a lot of money. On a budget you can make sex even kinkier and have some versatile toys you can use in a number of different ways.
Have you got a favourite essential toy that you think others need to know about? Perhaps you have some creative ideas for using the toys above. Let us know by leaving a comment in the box below.
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