Dirty Talk: What Sexy Things Should You Say?
August 8, 2016
A lot of people like to think that they are pretty straight-laced when it comes to their interests in the bedroom. They like things vanilla and won’t ever stray to more exciting flavours of sex… even when the temptation is there. However, there seems to be one thing that a lot of people cannot resist… and that is dirty talk.
Personally, I love a little dirty talk in the bedroom. It is the perfect companion to foreplay, and it gives you the chance to tell your partner exactly what you want. No fuss, no messing around. You make it clear just how they are going to get you off in a sexy way, and they love hearing you say it.
However, getting started with dirty talk can be really intimidating. There are so many things to say and you don’t want to get it wrong. That is why here on the Escort England blog we have put together a guide to tell you the different kinky things that you can say.
Why dirty talk works
People are scared of trying out dirty talk for the same reasons that it works. It is such a taboo thing to do in the bedroom. Saying sexy and sensual things is a no-go. You are supposed to just get on with it. Instead, we want to be able to say things like “fuck me harder” and “I love it when you kiss my neck”. We want to tell our partner all of the kinky things that we are thinking.
It feels so wrong the first time you let loose, but it also feels oh-so-right. As soon as you start dirty talking to your partner, you’ll find that she is hugely turned on and ready for you. It means that, with a little foreplay on the side, she’ll be ready for sex in no time at all. Hell, she’ll probably even strip herself so that you can get down to it.
Let your fantasy free
Not sure what to say? Try letting your fantasy free. Talking dirty is the perfect place for you to tell your partner all about the kinky and naughty things that you want to do to them. Want to put them in handcuffs? Tell them. Maybe you have decided that you have a thing for hot nurses? Share it with them.
It is easy enough when you know how. Try the following: “you look so hot in that uniform”. If they respond well to it, add “I’d love to fuck you in it”. It lets them in on the fantasy without being all “I’d like to bone you as a nurse”… which isn’t the least bit sexy.
Sometimes, just blurting it out can feel wrong. This is why subtly suggesting what you want is a great idea. When you start kissing and making out, try saying things like “I love it when you run your fingers up my legs”. The chances are, they will do it as soon as you say it.
You can also tell them what works when they do it. “Like that” works well, but if you want something sexier, there are alternatives. If they are slowly sucking on your cock and making eye contact with you, say “you look so hot right now”. They will keep eye contact for longer and it will really turn you on to know that they are doing it because it turns you on.
Blunt and to the point
Of course, some people are perfectly fine with being blunt. Once they have opened the dirty talk can of worms they just can’t stop. They want to keep going, and if you are in the heat of the moment, this is a great thing to do.
When you are really enjoying being dirty with your partner, don’t be afraid to tell them what you want in a blunt way. Say “fuck me harder” or “bend over for me”. It tells them exactly what you want without any fuss at all, and it will feel incredibly kinky.
You don’t have to say a thing
The strange thing about talking dirty is that, a lot of the time, you don’t actually have to say anything at all. You can get away with uttering no words… but you can still make noise. How? Sighing and moaning are great indicators for them. It lets your partner know what you enjoy and tells them when you are getting close. If they have just run their tongue along the length of your cock and it felt amazing, moan to let them know.
Really, talking dirty in the bedroom is easy when you know how. Hopefully these tips above will help you get it right. You might even discover that your partner is even dirtier than you thought… so what are you waiting for? Give it a try and see what happens. Don’t forget to use the comment box below to share your favourite phrases.
Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.
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