The Essentials Of Attending A Sex Party

December 28, 2017

The Essentials Of Attending A Sex Party

Sometimes you want to try something a little different. You want to step out of your comfort zone and experience something totally different. For some people, attending a sex party is very appealing. You’ll get to meet interesting people and try tons of new things, but for those who have never been to one before, it can be difficult to know what is expected of you.

If you haven’t been to a sex party before then there are a few rules you should know about. They are all pretty standard stuff, but if you don’t know about them, you might find that you slip up, which can lead to a bad experience for all.

No phones

Sex parties are private events. They are the sort of things where people can completely let themselves go and be free. Talking about what happens at the event in public is frowned upon, but you also need to make sure that you don’t do something silly like pull your phone out.

Most of us can’t go anywhere without our phones. We use our phones for everything, and so it can be tempting to pull it out when at sex parties simply to check our emails or hit social media to see what is going on.

Because sex parties are private, taking out your phone is going to cause issues. You might not intend to use it to take pictures or videos, but even taking your phone out sends this signal. Instead you should resist the temptation and leave your phone away. That text can wait until later.

Phones are a no-no at sex parties

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Too much to drink

For those who have never been to a sex party before, you might be tempted to have a drink to try and calm your nerves. It can help a little, and it can often put you at ease and help you to enjoy the experience more. Just make sure that you limit your drinking.

If you drink too much it can actually ruin the experience. You might find that you have trouble getting it up or that you don’t have full control of your body. It can really put a dampener on the party and leave you feeling rubbish.

So instead of giving in to temptation, stick with just the one drink. You’ll find that it is far more enjoyable for you and for your sex partners if you have full control, and it will be much more fun if you can remember everything that happens!

If you drink too much you might find that it ruins the experience

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Dress to impress

A number of parties will have their own rules when it comes to a dress code, but the vast majority want you to look smart. Trainers and jeans are a no-no, and so you should check out their rules before you attend.

You might not believe that your outfit will make a difference. After all, a number of parties will start by getting you to swap your clothes for a towel. However, showing that you care about your appearance is going to show others what kind of person you are.

It can help to put others at ease, as they can see that you care about yourself. It also shows that you are taking the event seriously. You aren’t simply turning up because you can. You are there for a purpose.

Dressing to impress is always the best way to do things

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Attending your first sex party

There are many different rules that you might find at sex parties. Each sex party has its own rules, so it is well worth doing your research before you attend. What is acceptable at one party might not be acceptable at another, so check before you attend.

If you have been to a few different sex parties, you could always share your top tips in the comment box below. You could help others make the most of their first sex party, and you might be able to offer some great advice!

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Lara Mills

Lara Mills is a writer who has four years of sex industry expertise behind her. Since she entered the adult industry, she has worked on the Escort Advertising forums, before moving into her current role three years ago.

Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.

In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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