Here’s How Sex Gets Better With Age!
March 31, 2015
Despite what people think, your sex life doesn’t stop at forty. Some young people act as though they invented every sex act, but in reality mature sex is far more enjoyable, and that is because mature people are a hell of a lot better at it.
A recent study has actually confirmed that older people are not only still at it like rabbits, but they are having more sex than younger people. Who would have guessed that?
Here on the XEscorts blog we take a look at the results of the study, and just why having sex when you are older is so much better.
National Survey of Sexual Attitudes and Lifestyles
The man behind the study, Professor David Speigelhalter, decided to look how how often people are having sex. He examined a number of men and women of different ages to find out if we were having more sex than we were a few years ago.
The results when they looked at young people were shocking. They discovered that 25 to 34 year old men and women are having sex on average just three times a month. That isn’t even once a week!
The next shock came when they examined the results given to them by 55 to 64 year olds. A surprisingly high number (a quarter of participants) reported that they were having sex at least four times a month. They are getting a hell of a lot more sex than young people. What is the secret?
Dame Helen Mirren is said to be one of Britain’s biggest sex symbols, still looking incredibly hot and sexy at 69 years old. How she does it is beyond us, but in recent interviews she opened up about her sex life.
In her youth, she confessed that sex was “paranoid and empty”, explaining that she was always very conscious of what she was doing and that she simply didn’t enjoy it as she should.
Now, she describes her sex life as “great, just wonderful”. In fact, at one point she opened up and said that she would set an alarm an hour early so that the two could have sex to start off their day in the right way. Maybe we should be taking notes…
What makes it so good?
There are a number of reasons why mature sex is so much better than any other kind of sex. One of the main ones is that they have had more experience in the bedroom, and so know exactly what to do to make you moan and groan on the bed while they do their thing to you.
Another hugely important point is that they have learned to love their body. For many people, they have a lot of hang ups about their bodies and so really struggle to throw themselves into sex and just enjoy it. Older people have grown to really love their bodies and what makes them unique, so they can instead just have sex without worrying if the sex position they are in will show off their most hated body parts.
With this love for their body comes confidence. They are willing to try new positions and new things to see what works for you. Also, this confidence means that they can simply laugh and have fun with the moment, instead of thinking too much about getting it exactly right.
Mature sex tips
There are some very simple tips you can use to spice up your sex life, and they will help you realise that you can still have amazing sex as you get older. First of all, take a look at how you warm up for sex. Do you simply give them some kisses and get straight down to business? Why not instead try giving them an erotic massage? Seeing them getting turned on as you stroke and touch their body can be a huge turn on for you, and you will hardly be able to resist giving in and fucking them to orgasm.
You should also not be afraid to experiment. We all have our sex routines, but sometimes they can become very dull and predictable. Instead, try to mix things up and try new things. Talk to your partner about your desires and fantasies, and you may just find something you can share together.
So, that is why sex gets better with age, and what you can do to make it even better than it is. Are you an older woman or man who has found your sex life improving as you’ve gotten older?
Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.
In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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