Why Occasional Sex Is The Hottest
November 16, 2015
We would all love to be in the position where we get to have intense sex all of the time. I’m pretty sure none of us would get anything done if we did, which is why spending time with an escort is such a treat. You get to have a fantastic time together and you’ll leave with some amazing memories, even if you can’t do it as regularly as you would like to.
However, that rare treat of having amazing, mind-blowing sex only occasionally might actually be better than having regular sex. Don’t believe us? We take a look at the reasons that occasional sex is the hottest sex that you could be having.
Skip the foreplay (if you want)
Foreplay often becomes a hugely important part of sex, especially when you are in a relationship. You have to spend time getting your partner warmed up and in the mood, and it can take a long time if you are both feeling stressed and wound up because of work. Sometimes, you might find that you skip the foreplay and sex altogether and go to sleep instead.
If you don’t see the person you are passionately fucking that often, when you know you are going to see them you’ll find that you are in the mood instantly. Foreplay? You won’t need it. You’ll be rock hard and ready to go as soon as you lay eyes on them.
Of course, for some that means they can get down to business straight away… but you might still want the thrill of foreplay. If you do, it won’t just be to get your partner in the mood. It will be because you want to do it, which makes it so much better.
Planning time together is so much easier
When you don’t see each other as much as you’d like, it suddenly becomes so much easier to plan your time together. You don’t have to have an elaborate date, as you know you’ll both want to just dive into bed together.
You might plan out some new things you’d like to try, but the main focus will be on the sex and pleasure you experience. The other details don’t really matter, as you’ll be so focused on making each other feel good that you just don’t think about them.
That said, you may still want to go out for a traditional date, but you’ll find that when you do all you will think about is sex. You’ll be horny and ready for them for the entire evening, and they will tease you the entire time to see how long you last before demanding you go back to bed together.
Communication is key
Communication is perhaps one of the biggest problems that people face in bed. We expect our partner to be a mind reader, and so when sex doesn’t go our way we feel disappointed.
Even if we accept that no-one can instantly know what we want in bed, the idea of talking to them and telling them what turns us on the most is terrifying. What if they reject our ideas or get upset that we are telling them what works for us?
Meeting up with an escort gives you the chance to talk about what you want before you even meet up with them. You can take the time on the phone to explain your interests and they will tell you what they think will work best for you, and if it doesn’t you feel comfortable enough with them to talk about it. Sex has just gotten a whole lot easier, all because you are speaking up about what it is you actually want and desire the most in the bedroom. How can that be a bad thing?
Surprises are even better
If you don’t get to spend as much time with your partner as you’d like to, the little things can make a huge difference. When you go to meet them, that little kiss on the cheek might be enough to get you ready to go, but then they might send you into the bathroom to get yourself showered and you feel a bit disappointed.
Then you’ll step out of the bathroom with just a towel on and find them lying on the bed in nothing but their lingerie, waiting for you to come and do all of the naughty things to them you’ve been hoping to do.
The surprises mean so much when you don’t see them as often as you’d like because it shows they want sex as much as you do. With regular sex you fall into a pattern, but when you have irregular sex you’ll find yourself constantly surprised.
When all else fails… sext!
The fact that you can’t see them for sex all of the time means you have to get a little creative, and when you’re thinking of them you can send them a cheeky sext and let them know what naughty thoughts you are having.
Having a sexting conversation, where you are constantly teasing each other and describing what you would do, is really hot. You’ll find yourself opening up about the things that you want to do, and they’ll go along with it because they find the idea just as sexy as you do.
Even better is phone sex or webcam sex. You can hear the other person’s heavy breathing and their moans as they masturbate, while you describe in great detail how you’ll bury your head in their lap and lick at their clit until they scream your name.
What do you think? Is having occasional sex hotter than having regular sex, or is there a certain charm to having sex on a schedule? You can let us know what you think about this topic and many others by leaving a comment in the box below.
Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.
In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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