The Best Sex Advice You’ll Ever Receive
May 24, 2017
When you want to spice things up in the bedroom, often the best thing you can do is take advice. Whether you find this advice online, in a magazine, or from a friend, it could prove to be the best sex advice you’ll ever receive.
However, there are so many pieces of sex advice out there that it can be really difficult to decide which are actually worth listening to. Some might tell you to do the most bizarre things, while others are good pieces of advice but get lost in the chaos. So what are the best pieces of sex advice that you will ever receive?
Talk about sex!
When it comes to sex we tend to be pretty tight lipped. We are made to feel as though it is wrong to talk about sex, and that our partner should be able to just read our minds and know what it is we want from sex.
This isn’t the case. Talking about sex is one of the best things you can do in the bedroom, and is one of the most effective pieces of advice you could ever need. Being able to talk about sex with your partner means that you can tell them all about your fantasies, as well as the things that turn you on or off.
It is okay to say to your partner “that isn’t working for me… can we try this?”. You are helping them to find what makes you cum, which they are going to love. Instead of guessing you are being direct, which means more orgasms for the pair of you!
It’s okay to focus on you
During sex we seem to get the impression that all of our attention has to be on our partner. We need to make it all about them and their pleasure, instead of ours. But in reality, it is okay for you to focus on your needs and what gets you off.
For example, a lot of women struggle to cum from penetrative sex alone. They need a little help, and allowing them to touch their own body during sex might be just what they need. Plus it’ll be a huge turn on to watch them touch themselves as you fuck them, so what are you waiting for?
Be open to new experiences
When it comes to sex, you have to be open to trying new experiences. It is okay to say no to things if they seem a little extreme. For example, if the most extreme thing you have tried in a new sex position, you don’t have to say “yes” to hardsports.
However, don’t be afraid to step out of your comfort zone. Why not add some spanking to your sex? It doesn’t have to be too hard. It can be light to see if you like it.
If you then find something that you don’t like, you don’t have to continue it. You can simply tick it off of your list. But if you do find something you love you can do it again in the future. It’s a win/win situation!
The best sex advice you’ve heard?
Sometimes the best kind of sex advice you will receive is the simple stuff. The stuff that doesn’t make sex any more complicated than it needs to be. You don’t have to try extreme sex positions in order to have a good time.
Talking to your partner about sex, trying new things, and allowing yourself to focus on your own pleasure are all great pieces of advice… but what is the best you’ve heard? Let us know by leaving a comment in the box below.
Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.
In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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