The Most Challenging Sex Positions!

February 24, 2015

Sex is a lot of fun, but sometimes you find yourself being very boring in bed. It doesn’t happen on purpose. It’s just that, over time, you know which positions work for you are rarely deviate. It might seem like you are always hitting the spot, but it can lead to things going stale in the sack.

So how do you spice things up? You could try all sorts of different games and toys to make things better, if you really wanted to. The problem is that they cost money. You could get just as much pleasure from a different sex position.

Here on XEscorts we take a look at some of the most challenging sex positions we could find. Warning: the stronger and more flexible you both are, the better. If you don’t think you can achieve it, don’t risk it! Have you managed to do any of these?

The Lustful Leg

This sex position is challenging because of the flexibility involved. It starts with you standing opposite each other, as close as can be. If you need to, have a wall behind her to give that little extra stability, should she need it.

Have her lift one leg up and put it next to your head, resting on your shoulder, while still standing. You can grab onto her ass while she holds your shoulders to make this a little easier.

From here, you should be able to slide inside of her and thrust slowly in and out. While stimulation during this position is minimal, it can still be a huge rush to see just how flexible and fun it can be.

The Balancing Act

The balancing act requires a lot of strength on the part of the man. You should lie down on a comfortable surface with your legs bent towards your chest, spread slight apart.

Your partner should then sit between your thighs and guide you into her. Have something around for her to grab on to, just in case. Although you are on the bottom, you keep the control of the rhythm and depth by thrusting up and down.

This position is challenging as the woman will literally be balancing on you, and so if it goes wrong it can cause a lot of pain and problems for you both. Only try this if you are certain you have the strength to keep it up.

The Head Game

This challenging position is like the cowgirl… only with the woman leaning back, the man on his knees, and the woman with her head against the ground. As you can imagine, it requires a lot of strength from the woman, as she is leaning on her shoulders and upper back.

You can get into this position in a variety of ways. You may choose to start from standing, with your cock inside them and their legs over your shoulder. Then it is simply a case of lowering their shoulders to the floor carefully and kneeling on the ground so you can give them a little support.

However, you could also have her lie on the ground and get you to help her move easily into the position. This one is said to give great g-spot stimulation, making it the most popular choice on the menu.


You should only attempt the more advanced positions if you have a willing partner and you both feel you have the necessary stamina, flexibility, and strength to keep it up. Of course, this should go without saying, but it is better to be safe than sorry!

If things are getting a little difficult for you, don’t be afraid to take a break. You could always try these positions simply to see how you do for a short time, before moving back to the tried and tested methods you usually use.

What is your favourite position? Is it particularly challenging?

Lara Mills
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