Our Escort Guide on How To Deal With Nervous Clients

November 5, 2018

Nervous guy at door

Every escort meeting is different. Many are hot and horny, others are sensual. In the same light, every client will be different also. Some will have loads of confidence, whilst others may be nervous wrecks. It is something many companions say makes the job so interesting as it is ever changing.

There are a number of reasons why clients can be nervous. They be socially awkward naturally, they may be about to lose their virginity, whilst some may be confident normally, but they find the concept of paying a woman for her time blows their mind. Some may even feel they aren’t very attractive or good in bed so will not want to be looked down on by the escort. There is no problem with any of this as we are all individuals with our own characteristics.

No matter what the reasons are, the escort will likely have to deal with this client differently. That is pretty obvious to be fair. But how should the escort deal with the nervous guy, ensuring they have a great time, yet getting the meeting done in a timely manner?

Well, today we are going to give you a few tips. These have been offered to us by the companions on our site, so hopefully they are of use to you ladies out there.

1) Act Serene

It is important to be calm and relaxed. If you start acting too firm they will get even more nervous which will have a detrimental effect on the meeting.

Be funny, make a few jokes, find out how they are. This will help put them at ease and make it clear that you are pleased to have their company. As soon as they know you want them there, they will begin to relax.

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2) Give a Massage

What better way to get them to relax than to offer up a massage. This will let them drift away, and when it is time to turn over those nerves will be drifting away, and they will be getting ready for fun.

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3) Don’t Expect Them to Take the Lead

When they get there, they are likely to not know what to do. Therefore asking them to take the lead will make them jittery.

Instead, ask them what they like. Let them lean back and then you can take them for a wonderful ride. It takes away their anxiety about what to do and when.

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4) Be Understanding

Many of these clients will be new and are likely to make mistakes. Maybe they will attempt to finger your clitoris or do kissing WITH tongue because they forget they are things the escort may choose not to do on their favourites. You will soon find out of someone is taking the piss or they have just made a mistake, but if you go militant from the word go, they are likely to get even more nervous.

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5) When They Have Finished, Give Them a Hug

This kind of client may still want reassurance that they have done everything required of them. The last thing they want is to think you are saying ‘what a gimp’ as soon as the door is closed.

Give them a hug and tell them you have had a great time. This will calm their nerves as they leave.

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So, follow these tips and you can be confident that the nervous kitten who entered the room will be strutting down the street like John Travolta in ‘Saturday Night Fever’ by the time it comes to an end.

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Martin Ward

Martin Ward is a well respected editor and writer with over five years experience in the adult industry. After stints in the Escort Advertising call centre and on the escort forum, he moved into the site editor position around three years ago.

Since then, he has specialised in articles on the battle for equal rights for sex workers, sexual health, as well as bringing the readers fun news from around the world. He also has a major interest in LGBT rights, and is an active campaigner in this field.

When he isn't fighting the good fight, he enjoys spending time with his girlfriend, and young daughter. He also enjoys reading and taking long walks.
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