Mature People Have Better Sex!
July 12, 2016
A lot of things are said to get better with age: wine, whisky, and cheese are just a few. However, a lot of people tend to forget about one other, which is sex. The older you get, the better sex feels for you and is for you, and if you ask them, mature people will tell you that the sex they are having is the best sex of their life.
Throughout the years, people have been arguing about which generations have the better sex, but many firmly believe mature people have it best of all. The main reason? They have had a little more time on their side, and so they know exactly how to get what they want from sex.
So, why should we be turning to mature people for their sex advice? We take a look at some of the gems they have to offer, and why you might want to consider a mature lady for your next sexy rendezvous.
No mind games
A lot of people get into the bedroom and immediately start playing games. They might pretend to be something that they are not, but a lot of mature people advise that the best thing you can do is be yourself.
Instead of hiding and pretending to be someone else, you should be totally open with your partner. This means that, if you have a fetish, you should talk to them about it. Don’t ignore it and deny yourself simply because of the reaction you suspect you might get from your partner.
If your partner understands, then you’ll have the perfect chance to go for it and explore your fetish. If not, then you know that you will simply have to save that fetish for another time, or explore it in other safe ways.
Many mature people also believe that the key to good sex is to keep an open mind. Yes, you might like vanilla sex, but there are so many different things that you can do with vanilla sex to spice things up. And if you do like other things, go for it and try them.
Sticking to simply one type of sex can leave you bored. If you want to try more, you should try more.
Be open to experimenting in the bedroom. The worst thing that can happen with experimentation is that you don’t enjoy it. The beauty of that is what you will not have to do it again. The best thing? You might just find something incredible that you enjoy.
Every sexual partner is different
One assumption that a lot of people make is that their partners are all the same. They might not even realise they are doing it, but they thing that what works for one person is going to work for others.
This is not the case, and it is for this reason that we need to slow things down in the bedroom. Take your time exploring your partner’s body instead of jumping straight to sex. Enjoy foreplay by imagining you have never touched a naked person before.
You’ll find that slowing things down not only turns you both on even more, but you’ll learn something new about your partner. You’ll learn about turn ons you never knew they had, and what could be bad about that?
Lots and lots of talk
Talking is the key to amazing sex… and we don’t simply mean dirty talk. Yes, talking dirty is a good way to spice up sex, but communication is the key to enjoying amazing and mind-blowing sex.
You need to be able to talk about sex with your partner. If you can’t, then you will find that neither of you get what you want. Instead, you’ll both be just going through the motions and thinking you know what your partner wants.
Mature people are excellent at talking about sex. They have taken the time to learn what they want with sex, and so if their partner isn’t getting it, they will tell them. It might seem harsh, but the reality is you want sex to be enjoyable for both of you. By telling your partner clearly what you want, you are helping them to pleasure you.
Learn to let it go
By opening up lines of communication with your partner, you might find that it is a lot easier to talk to them about things. You might even want to discuss your fetish with them, but if they do not seem interested, don’t push it.
Once you have put the offer out there, give them chance to think it over. Don’t keep asking if they have made up their mind, as they will then feel pressured. Instead, let them learn more about the fetish at their own pace. When they are ready to talk about it, they will talk to you.
Answer any questions that they might have honestly. The more open you are about it, they more likely they are to want to know more. However, if they decide that it isn’t for them, don’t try to convince them otherwise. Learn to let it go and you will find that there are plenty of other kinky things that you can do in the bedroom.
Mature people have better sex
These are just a few of the snippets of sex advice that mature people have for us, and it is about time we started paying more attention. Why? Because they are having better sex… and if we want to join them in that, we need to start listening more.
Sometimes, maturity is the sexiest thing on a person. If you are debating going for an older lady, you might want to check out Anna Smith’s blog about why mature escorts are so popular. She looks at the hottest things about mature ladies so you know exactly what you are in for.
Got some other tips you want to share? You can use the comment box below to join in the discussion. See what mature people have to say about better sex, or simply tell us the hottest things you have gotten up to with a mature lady.
Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.
In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.