Public Sex: How To Avoid Getting Caught
August 12, 2018
The weather lately means that more and more people are taking risks. They feel horny and want to take advantage of the weather by stripping off for some public sex. The problem is that they don’t often think about where they fuck, and so they end up getting caught.
Yes, the risk of getting caught is part of the appeal. However, unless you want to be one of the many couples making a name for themselves by being filmed fucking in public, you need to be smart. Here are some of the ways that you can avoid getting caught when having public sex.
Don’t do it drunk!
For a lot of us, drinks tend to make us more daring. We lose our inhibitions, and often our desire for sex goes through the roof. Fucking in public tends to be much more appealing to us than it ever has been before. And yet having public sex when drunk is when most people get themselves caught.
When you are drunk you don’t think things through properly. A park in the middle of the day seems like the perfect time, even when it is busy, and the desire to keep going even when you know you have been spotted is real. But that is how couples get caught.
Needless to say, this isn’t such a good idea. Yes, the thrill of being caught is what makes it so appealing, but actually being caught is another matter. If you really want to enjoy sex in public, keep your wits about you. Don’t start drinking if you feel you need some liquid courage, as this could spell trouble.
Choose your location carefully
Location is important when choosing the right place for your public romp. Parks are popular spots to visit, but they are often incredibly busy. During the day it is a nice place for people to walk, and at night it is somewhere to hang out. This makes it a place often too busy for you to visit for sex.
Cars are a good choice, but many argue that sex in a car doesn’t equal public sex. You are still closed off from the world, but it might be a good place to start if you want to ease into it. Hotels can also be a good spot for this, especially if you have sex near windows or with the windows open. It gives you a little risk but still with a little privacy.
If you can manage to find a park that is private, then go for it. Make sure you scout the location out first to ensure that there are no events taking place so that you can definitely be alone. Some like to head to libraries as well if they are quiet, but this can make it more difficult to avoid being caught. Research your chosen location to make the best of it.
Dress for the occasion
It’s a good idea to plan ahead and dress for the occasion. For example, trying to enjoy sex in public while wearing jeans isn’t going to work out well for you. Jeans are very restrictive and it isn’t so easy to slip out of them. Loose trousers work better.
Skirts work well, but you need to be careful of the type. Opt for something you can easily slip underneath. A pencil skirt won’t work, as they are often tight and difficult to slip up over your partner’s hips.
Got a love of yoga pants? Typically they can make it difficult for public sex sessions. Yoga pants are tight and make your partner’s ass look great, but removing them for sex means that you can’t easily cover up again. However, the answer might just be Srirachas. These yoga pants have a secret opening so that you can have sex without removing them. They are expensive, but if they are what you want, it might be worth getting a pair!
Keep the noise down!
The biggest way to give the game away is to make noise. I know that I can make a lot of noise during sex, especially when I get caught up in the moment. However, public sex is risky enough without drawing even more attention to yourself.
This is why it is a good idea to think about the noise level before you go for it. A library might seem like the perfect spot but they are typically silent. This means that every little noise will be heard. Some, therefore, opt for places in the city where the noise is covered.
You can try kissing your partner during sex to keep your mouths busy. You could also use a gag if you are concerned. It’ll be a fun way to kink things up, though it could be difficult to explain. Maybe instead get them to use their hand to silence themselves when needed?
Why public sex turns us on
Public sex is a huge turn on for us because there is the risk of being caught. Others might see us fucking, which makes us want to try it. We are having sex somewhere new and getting out of the bedroom. What is there not to like about it?
Actually getting caught isn’t what we want though. Our tips above can help you stay out of the limelight. Got some suggestions of your own? You can share them in the comments.
Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.
In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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