Seven Tips on Not Ruining a Relationship!
January 8, 2014
We all know that, despite it supposedly being a ‘golden period’, the start of a relationship can be hard. You are just starting to get to know what makes each other tick. And lets face it, the seeds for most relationships that fail are planted in those first few months.
This is why your friends at XEscorts have put together a seven point guide to not messing up your relationships at the start. We hope you find it useful!
1) Being Rude to Bar Staff and Waiters
You really wouldn’t believe how many people go on those first few dates with a new partner and act like an idiot to those in the customer service industry. Maybe it is nerves, or a desire to act like someone of importance in those formative moments, but in the end, it shows you in a very bad light. It makes you look very arrogant
People want to be with a pleasant, caring person. Make sure that is how you come across.
2) Giving Ultimatums
Communication is a major key in any relationship. If your first port of call is to start threatening to end the relationship, it will sow seeds of doubt for later, even if in the short term you get someone to capitulate.
Talk your problems out; don’t resort to threats if you want it to last
3) A Lack of Gratitude
During the formative times of a relationship, both partners are usually doing many nice things to impress each other. But nothing irritates people more than thinking that their efforts are not being appreciated.
Remember to say thankyou for all the things they do for you. It stops you coming across as an ungrateful swine and damaging the relationship
4) Admit it When you are Wrong
Stubbornness is a natural human quality, but one that, if taken to the extreme can really ruin a relationship.
Arguments are definitely going to happen during any relationship, but you had better be willing to admit it when you are wrong. If not, you gain a reputation as someone that will be very difficult to spend time with in the long term.
5) Respect Boundaries
This is a big mistake people will make at the start, in both a physical, and emotional sense. No means no. If you get pushy, you might survive in the short term, but in the medium to long term this will cause a real niggle that might well sink your battleship at a later date.
6) Unwillingness to Spend Time Alone
At the start of a relationship it is natural that you will want to spend lots of time together. But seriously, if you want to be with them ALL the time, then you come across as clingy and a bit of a pain in the ass.
Be willing to have time for yourself. Don’t worry, it will make the time you have together better, and even more special!
7) Canceling Plans or Showing up Late
Right, we can all get busy, but if you start showing up late of canceling plans altogether, people just think you are jerking them around.
The best thing to do is make sure you plan your schedule properly, and don’t say yes when asked out for the sake of saying yes.
You will be respected more for an honest ‘no, can’t make Tuesday, but do you fancy Wednesday?’
Ask a London Escort
As we said before, we hope you found that useful. If you want to chat about anything, including relationships, feel free to book one of the London escorts. Since they deal with lots of different people, they have plenty of life experience. They will be more than happy to help you through any difficult times you may have. And even if they don’t want to talk about relationships, you will surely have a great time!
Finally, if you are in a new relationship, good luck. We really hope it works out for you!