Is There Such A Thing As A Sex God?
July 12, 2016
Sometimes, you’ll come across someone who is absolutely amazing in bed. They seem to instinctively know just what it is you like best during sex. They can make you scream their name out loud for all to hear with just a few touches. It is people like these that earn titles like sex god and sex goddess.
Now it seems like anyone can become a sex god, simply by using a number of different sex tips and talking to their partner about what they want in bed. However, others are questioning if there is even such a thing as a sex god or someone who is good at sex. Can one person really be amazing at sex?
Here on the XEscorts blog, we take a look at whether there is any such thing as a sex god. We also look at the one thing that you can do to make your partner feel amazing in the bedroom.
The idea of a sex god
The idea of a sex god is that they are someone who is so amazing at sex that they seem to have godly powers. They are able to turn you on and get you to orgasm in a way that makes you start almost praying to them. You’ll find that you are chanting their name over and over because it feels so good.
If you take a look at Urban Dictionary, you’ll find the following definition:
“One who is not only great in bed, they are great in the kitchen, in the car, in a park, a church parking lot, my parents’ bed, the courthouse bathroom, everywhere.”
Basically, they are someone so good at sex that, no matter where you put them, they are going to make you feel amazing. Have you ever had sex so good that you still think about it now? You might be lucky enough to have had many different occasions like that, and if so, you might believe that you have fucked a sex god.
Can someone be amazing at sex?
Of course, there are those out there who think that sex gods are simply a myth. They don’t think that someone can really be amazing at sex, and that it is all a matter of taste. One of those people is the principal investigator of the University of California’s Sexual Psychophysiology and Affective Neuroscience Lab, Nicole Prause.
Prause believes that someone cannot be “good at sex”, as there is a hell of a lot more involved in it than that. In her words: “there’s no such thing as someone who is ‘good at sex’. It completely depends on your partner. For example, if you’re someone who loves to be pooped on, I’m never going to be a good partner for you. That’s just not in my repertoire.”
She goes on to explain just why she believes there is no such thing as a sex god, stating that “no one wants to be dumb at sex”, and that the knowledge they need to become good at it “isn’t embedded in the information” that you can read online. Instead, she insists that it is actually “embedded in the individual”.
So what does that mean? Well, to put it bluntly, instead of reading lots and lots about sex, she believes that we should instead be working on our partner and, effectively, studying their body to see what works best for them.
How to make your partner feel good
So it seems that the key to making your partner feel absolutely amazing in bed is to learn their body and what they like, instead of reading lots about sex. However, we here on XEscorts believe that all of the sex tips you read online can still help you in a way.
Instead of just taking the sex tips at face value, you need to experiment. Some of them might work amazingly on your partner, getting them to orgasm in no time at all, but others might not work. The key is experimenting to find out what feels good for them.
Each person is different. For example, some men love having someone tug on their balls when they are about to cum. Others hate it and don’t like their balls touched at all.
Taking the time to experiment and explore isn’t a bad thing. In fact, it is a great thing. You get to discover your partner’s turn ons slowly, and by using the many sex tips that you have picked up online, you can make them feel as though you are a sex god… even if some do not believe that there are no gods of sex.
Are you a sex god?
Do you consider yourself to be a sex god? Do you think that you have what it takes to make anyone tremble at the knees because of your touch, or do you believe that your skills in bed require you to take your time getting to know your partner?
Personally, I think that there might be those incredibly talented in the bedroom. They might be very good at reading people, and so know exactly what each touch is doing to their partner. But whether they are gods of sex is another matter entirely.
What do you think about this topic? Do you think sex gods walk among us, or are we simply boosting people’s egos for the fun of it?
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