Tips For Dealing With Premature Ejaculation
December 29, 2015
The way that some people talk about premature ejaculation, you’d think it was very rare. However, it is believed that roughly 30% of all men will suffer from premature ejaculation at some point in their life, and this number is higher than most people expect it to be. Premature ejaculation is a problem for so many people, but one of the biggest problems for those suffering with it isn’t the condition itself. Instead, it is getting people to understand it and then finding ways to deal with it.
You need an understanding partner, someone who is willing to accept that sometimes sex will end far sooner than you wanted it to, and someone with patience to try different techniques with you. Most importantly of all, you need to understand that sometimes sex will not always last all night, and that by using the right techniques you can learn to delay your orgasm and leave your partner feeling absolutely amazing and yourself feeling like a stud. Want to know how? Here on the XEscorts blog we take a look at tips for dealing with premature ejaculation.
The very idea of popping off too soon makes you nervous. You start to worry and panic that you won’t be able to satisfy your partner, so when it happens you feel as though you knew it all along. The problem is that by panicking about it, you are putting your body in a position where the only thing it can do when tense is to let you release. It becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy, and when you worry about premature ejaculation, it is more likely to happen.
Instead, you should learn to relax a little. Try taking a nice, long bath and masturbating while you are in there. This time alone where you are relaxing will let you learn where the point of no return is for your orgasm, and that can help you out in the long run.
When you meet up with your partner and feel that you are a little tense, unwind with a massage. The massage will turn you on, but feeling their hands working on every muscle in your body will help you to relax even more, and it will also get you used to them touching you. This means that, when they finally get their hands on your cock, it isn’t so much of a surprise, and you are going to find your orgasm is delayed a little.
Techniques in the bedroom
There are a few different techniques in the bedroom that you can try to delay your orgasm, and each of them can really work wonders in the heat of the moment when you find your orgasm is coming on too fast for your liking.
The start and stop technique is one of the most simple ones you can try, but it is also hugely effective. It works exactly as it sounds, as you simply get started with sex and then stop when you need to. This is where learning the point of no return comes in handy, as you can stop the fun before you get there and spend a minute just giving your partner pleasure instead. The break can sometimes be all that you need.
The squeeze technique works well, and is the reason so many choose to use cock rings. You basically squeeze the area between the glans and the shaft of the penis to delay orgasm. This technique, however, takes a while to begin to delay orgasm and can actually affect your erection, which is why many prefer the start/stop technique instead.
Condoms can work wonders
Some of the best tools that someone dealing with premature ejaculation can use are condoms. There are so many different ones that can help to delay your orgasm, so it is well worth investigating and seeing which ones might work well for you.
There are plenty of thicker condoms that you can buy that are said to make each stroke less sensitive, and this can help to delay your orgasm. Extra safe condoms are similar to this, as the thicker material means they are less likely to break. There are also some condoms that you can buy which have a special lube inside of them to help men keep their orgasm and stay harder for longer.
That said, there are also some amazing condoms that you can buy that are different to the usual ones. Some actually have special ribs and dots on them that can make things more interesting for the woman, so instead of delaying your orgasm you could actually speed up hers and make it so that you both reach the peak at the same time.
If premature ejaculation stills happens…
Even with these tips, it is still possible that you’ll have to deal with premature ejaculation. It’s a horrible thought, but it does still happen, even when you use the above techniques. Over time you will hopefully be able to delay your orgasm a little, but you should also accept that sometimes it might not work out for you.
If you do find yourself finishing early, it isn’t the end of the world. Instead, it gives you the perfect chance to show your partner just how good you are in bed with other things, so get your head between her legs and eat her out the way that she deserves. Lasting longer in sex isn’t the be all and end all of things, and if you have plenty of other great skills you can bring to the table your partner probably won’t be bothered if sex doesn’t last all night.
Work on your other techniques to impress them in bed, and hopefully by using the techniques above you’ll find you can delay your orgasm enough to really enjoy sex again. Got some others tips to share or something you want to see on the blog? Let us know in the comment box below.