The average time for sex to last is six minutes. That’s it. Six minutes. Most researchers have agreed on that, and we aren’t happy with that fact. Six minutes is the time that you might put a meal in the microwave for to heat it up, not how long sex should last! Yet there are so many factors as to why sex might last that long that it is hard to make it last that little bit longer.
Most of the time we can just jump into bed with someone and concentrate on just what you are going to do to them, thinking about the way we are going to lick their bodies and make them come. But sometimes we start to worry about what they think of us, and that can ruin the mood.
If you go looking for articles or tips on how to give her multiple orgasms, you will be overwhelmed by articles promising the answers… but when you start reading them, you are made to feel as though you need a gynaecology degree just to give her one!
Orgasms are a pretty important part of sex. Having sex and missing out on the big finish leaves us hugely unsatisfied, as well as leaving it to feel unfinished. That is why we are always talking about them.