SEX TIPS

For some people, talking dirty comes as naturally to them as breathing. They know exactly what to say to turn you on and they know just when to say it. They never seem stuck for the perfect thing to say, making it all seem very natural. Then there are some who have such difficulty with dirty talk that the mere suggestion of it makes them panic in case they say something so outrageous that their partner just gets up and walks away.

Whenever I encounter men who talk about their sexual preferences, I always ask them if they prefer either tits or ass. Most of the answers have always been the ass, maybe because they look so big and juicy, or that it provides them more cushion for the pushing.

Sharing is caring, right? Or at least this is what your parents taught you and what society keeps trying to make you understand…but do they also refer to your partner? Is it OK to have fantasies about sharing him or her with other people?

A surprisingly large number of people get fingering wrong. You might be wondering “how do you get something as simple as moving your fingers in and out of a sweet pussy wrong?” but that’s just the thing. People think it is very simple, when actually it takes a little more than just thrusting your fingers until they squeal to get them to come.

Have you ever had an ecstatic sexual moment? Have you ever felt deeply connected, forgetting all about the act of sex, the orgasm chase, the “intercourse as a leisure interest or as a way to restart after a long day”?

Sorry gentlemen, but as a woman I can tell you that a lot of you tend to make the same mistakes during oral sex. You’ll try your hardest, give it your all, and yet what you have learnt throughout the years through experience and watching porn just doesn’t cut it and we don’t get to have that moaning, groaning, screaming your name out so the neighbours know exactly what is going on kind of orgasm that we were hoping for. Bummer.

Pretty much every single time we look at the newspaper there is a new study talking about sex. They are either telling us how great sex is for you, and that having sex can help reduce the risks of health complications later in life, or they are telling us that sex is actually bad for the body because of the different things it can lead to.

Most of us will know what pegging is and, if you don’t, websites like Urban Dictionary will describe it to you without any fuss as simply “anal sex reverse”. Instead of the man giving it to the woman up the ass, it’ll be the woman (usually with a strap-on) fucking the man’s tight asshole, and it is increasing in popularity.

The most romantic gesture you can make towards a man, is giving him a blow job. OK, this might not be true for everybody, but most men prefer being surprised with a crazy blow job than with a fancy dinner.

Oral sex is as important for a woman as it is for a man, even though the blowjobs seem to be more “advertised”. That’s only because men talk about their sex life more than women. Also, most men have no idea what’s going on between a woman’s legs and that makes it harder for them to pleasure her with oral sex.