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There are certain aspects of growing older that really suck. The fact that I have to pay my own bills and can’t just spend all of my money on clothes, wine, and chocolate is one of those things. For others, it is sex. Some people hold the belief that mature sex just doesn’t happen… and that when it does it is just disappointing.

I always hated making New Year’s resolutions. I’d go for something ridiculous like “give up chocolate” and break it before the 1st of January was over. Some people suggested making fun resolutions but I struggled to think of anything.

If it hadn’t already been made abundantly clear from the things I write about, I love sex. When I’m not having it, I’m fantasising about it. When I’m not fantasising about it, I’m talking about it. It’s one of my absolute favourite things. While Maria sings about raindrops on roses and whiskers on kittens, I’d […]

Finding time for just you and your partner at Christmas is tough. Most of us will spend the day with our families, wishing we could just got five minutes with our partner. When you do get the time together it is hard to know exactly what you should do to make the most of it.

Getting into the Christmas spirit can be a challenge. If you’re anything like me, you might have struggled with it this year. Christmas is just around the corner, and feeling festive just wasn’t happening. Not until I put together a Christmas sex playlist, that is!

Most of us have a sense of adventure, especially when it comes to sex. We want to try more daring things to break out of our comfort zones. We love the idea of challenging ourselves sexually, of doing something unexpected but fun.

I get it. Sometimes I can be difficult to get into the Christmas spirit. You might have braved the shops to buy gifts and found yourself more frustrated than ever. You may hate the “I want this” mentality that Christmas brings about. Either way, feeling festive is challenging sometimes.

There have been times during sex when sharing kisses with my partner just hasn’t been on the menu. They might find it distracting, or we might just want to focus on the act itself. I’m a huge fan of kissing, so it can be difficult to ignore something that comes to easily to me.

Most of us are well aware that that sex toys help women orgasm. Hey, if they didn’t, the sex toys industry wouldn’t be a patch on what it is., which countless vibrators and dildos gratefully being snapped up by women young and old. However, quite surprisingly, research has shown just how good they are for the ladies out there.

For a lot of people out there, candles and sex go hand in hand. We might light them to set the mood, turning off the lights to enjoy the full effect. A nice light scent to them can also help the mood, particularly if you are going for romance. However, candles don’t just tick romances boxes when it come to sex.