The sex industry is a difficult one to be a part of at the moment. Countries all around the world are trying to decide whether sex work is real work, and when it comes to escorting in particular, they aren’t sure if it is. They think escorting is as simple as lying on your back, but we all know that it is a lot more complicated than that. The problem is that all of the changing laws are making it harder for escorts, and so staying safe is more challenging than before.

Everyone has a fetish that turns them on, whether it would be role-playing, feet, BDSM – that’s mine! – we all have a kink that makes our dicks hard and our pussies wet. Normally, urophilia is classified under BDSM, but not everyone wants to wear a piss gag and be forced to drink someone else’s urine. Still, a lot of people enjoy nothing more than a little sprinkle on their companion’s soft skin.

If you’re going to ask me if porn provides us an unrealistic view on sex, I would reply with another question where I ask if the Star Wars film are making us believe that the Galactic Empire will take over the House of Parliament.

Everyone likes different things in bed, and trying to cater for everyone’s unique tastes is a real challenge. You might feel that, no matter what you do when it comes to sex, you simply aren’t getting it right, but finding out what the right thing to do is often is very difficult, which is why we’ll just try anything in the hope of getting it oh-so right!

There is nothing wrong with having good old-fashioned sex, but you know what they say, “ different strokes for different folks”. So, even though many people are profoundly happy with their vanilla sex life, some have a huge desire to play with their naked body in a diversity of ways.

Video gaming is a huge industry. Millions are poured into it each year, and the results are obvious. We see people spending on game after game for their entertainment, and the amount of merchandise available for gamers is truly huge. They can wear their gaming pride on their sleeves, while those who watch porn don’t get the same luxury. Sure, you could walk around wearing a t-shirt from your favourite website, but you probably will get a lot of weird looks for it.

So, Charlie Sheen has announced he is HIV positive. It marks just the latest chapter in the life of a man who has seen seen sex, drugs and partying dominate his lifestyle. Are people upset this has happened? Yes. Are they surprised? Certainly not.

We would all love to be in the position where we get to have intense sex all of the time. I’m pretty sure none of us would get anything done if we did, which is why spending time with an escort is such a treat. You get to have a fantastic time together and you’ll leave with some amazing memories, even if you can’t do it as regularly as you would like to.

We might try to give sex our all every time we get down to business, but sometimes we fall a little short of the mark. It could just be that we need a little extra help getting to the place where we are grabbing at the covers and moaning as our orgasm hits, and while your finger can be the perfect way to get there, sometimes it just isn’t enough.