ADVICE

Everyone likes different things in bed, and trying to cater for everyone’s unique tastes is a real challenge. You might feel that, no matter what you do when it comes to sex, you simply aren’t getting it right, but finding out what the right thing to do is often is very difficult, which is why we’ll just try anything in the hope of getting it oh-so right!

There is nothing wrong with having good old-fashioned sex, but you know what they say, “ different strokes for different folks”. So, even though many people are profoundly happy with their vanilla sex life, some have a huge desire to play with their naked body in a diversity of ways.

We might try to give sex our all every time we get down to business, but sometimes we fall a little short of the mark. It could just be that we need a little extra help getting to the place where we are grabbing at the covers and moaning as our orgasm hits, and while your finger can be the perfect way to get there, sometimes it just isn’t enough.

To many people, giving an erotic massage involves putting on some sexy music, lighting some candles, and giving their partner a bit of a once over with your hands before you get down to business and start pleasuring them… but this isn’t the right way to do it, especially not if you want to drive them wild with desire. All this will do is get them a bit horny, which might be okay for you, but they would like something special instead.

Do you remember when you were 14 years-old and you’ve been asked out on a date by your gorgeous crush? You hung out at your favourite coffee shop where you tried your first cappuccino, and you bought her that cute ‘Hello Kitty’ purse that she wanted to get. When you took her back home and stood outside her front door, she started to stare at you with her ‘kiss me!’ eyes. She wasn’t wearing that cherry-flavored lip balm for no reason, and you didn’t brush your teeth 3 times before you left the house for the sake of having whiter teeth. She moved closer to you with a smile on her face, and then, you went in for the kill!

So, you’re with a beautiful woman, you’ve been together for quite some time and now you’re due to be a father in under a year! You get to hear your baby’s first kick, see your child wriggling around on the screen at one of the ultrasound sessions, and you get to see your partner developing that baby glow on her skin. But no matter how wonderful these experiences are when you’re preparing for your little one to see you for the first time…you find it difficult to control your cock when you’re feeling at your horniest.

For some people, talking dirty comes as naturally to them as breathing. They know exactly what to say to turn you on and they know just when to say it. They never seem stuck for the perfect thing to say, making it all seem very natural. Then there are some who have such difficulty with dirty talk that the mere suggestion of it makes them panic in case they say something so outrageous that their partner just gets up and walks away.

Whenever I encounter men who talk about their sexual preferences, I always ask them if they prefer either tits or ass. Most of the answers have always been the ass, maybe because they look so big and juicy, or that it provides them more cushion for the pushing.

Sharing is caring, right? Or at least this is what your parents taught you and what society keeps trying to make you understand…but do they also refer to your partner? Is it OK to have fantasies about sharing him or her with other people?

Gentlemen! We’ve all been there, right? You’re in bed with a sexy partner, you get down and dirty with her, then all of a sudden you climax after 5 minutes of getting your cock stroked, licked or fucked. However, your partner is left to finish herself off. We all understand that it’s part of men’s nature to come quicker than women, after all, a man’s dick is just a huge clit.