There’s no easy way to say it, but sex ruts suck. You want sex, but when you have it, it just doesn’t feel as though it is as satisfying as it could be. It could be that you have found yourself doing the same things in the bedroom, and so you are desperate to get out of your sex rut.

We are all guilty of trying to skip to the main event during sex. We want to enjoy the pleasure of sex with our partner, and the build up sometimes doesn’t feel quite as exciting as it could. One of the biggest casualties of this is fingering.

Let’s admit it… it would be amazing if our partners could read our minds when it comes to sex. The problem is that they can’t. They can’t just look at us and instantly know what we want, unless we happen to be holding a sign detailing the exact way we want them to give it to us. This is why we need to open up about sex.

It isn’t enough for us to have regular sex. Oh no. We want to make sure that we are having enough sex. We want to compare our sex lives to the sex lives of our peers to ensure that we are having enough sex per month. If not then we’ll just have to up the ante, won’t we?

I love talking about and learning more about sex. In my mind I’m pretty open-minded when it comes to kinks and fetishes. However, I might not be as open-minded as I thought. I had a bit of a wake-up call recently when one of my friends started talking about their Daddy Dom kink.

Anyone who has gone on a date with an escort will know just how easy it can be to let your feelings get the better of you. You spend time in the company of a stunning person, being treated in the way that you desire to be. To find that you have fallen in love with an escort isn’t all that rare.

I don’t know about you, but I like to think that I’m pretty damn good at sex. That said, I am constantly looking for new ways to spice things up. It isn’t any fun to just rely on the same techniques over and over again, is it?

Never before has BDSM been as popular as it is now. Things like Fifty Shades has helped to really draw attention to it, and people are eager to experiment with it. Whether you want to take control, submit yourself, or switch between the two roles, you might find that BDSM is very exciting to try and add to your routine.

BDSM is an exciting world. It is all about control, whether you are the one with it or the one giving it up. It is thrilling to play with control, but one thing many people forget about when doing it is the dirty talk.